Dear Horny Guys in the Club,

Good afternoon, I was wondering when you ask a girl for a number in the club and she doesn’t want to hang with you right away, do you give up on her? Usually. Most of y’all looking for a one-night hit and leave. But is that the correct way to go about it, when you could have sex with the girl multiple times? Or the girl can’t hang out tonight, but can hang out tomorrow, would you take the chance?

I feel like even when I say I can hang out tomorrow and not tonight, usually guys be like “nah” or just leave me on read. I was actually interested if I say I want to hang out with you again. I would have not given you my number at all. There is always a chance to hang out tomorrow or next week. Just a simple date, out for coffee and then we could possibly have sex( which is the end goal of most club hookups anyways). It’s all about the waiting game per se.

Step up your time and effort. You spend all this time chasing a girl around the club for 2 hours and you aren’t going to text her back or even try to hang out? Think about it that way. That’s a waste of time.

Or maybe, if the guy isn’t talking to me, they aren’t interested. But if I’m approached, I assume you want to hang out for a little bit. Maybe I’m assuming wrong.

So give me a chance if I say I want to hang out tomorrow. Actually, give me a chance if I want to hang out with you at all!

Sincerely,

Pandora Naomi